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Learning to Put Gratitude Into Action … All Year Long
By Maggie Small, Seventh Grade Science Teacher, Seventh Grade Coordinator and Advisor
Post Date: November 13, 2026
There is something about this time of year that invites us to slow down, take stock, and think about the people and experiences that make our lives richer. As Thanksgiving approaches, conversations about gratitude find their way into classrooms, family gatherings, and everyday interactions. We talk about what we are thankful for, the people who make a difference in our lives, and the importance of giving back. But what if gratitude was something we practiced every day?
This fall, our seventh graders have been exploring that idea through ThinkGive, a social-emotional learning program that encourages students to consider how their words, choices, and actions affect themselves and the people around them. Through classroom discussions, reflection, and small acts of kindness, students are learning that making a positive difference doesn’t require grand gestures. Often, it begins with something simple: noticing someone, offering encouragement, expressing appreciation, or choosing to include someone who might feel left out.
One of the things I have particularly enjoyed about our work with ThinkGive is watching students turn ideas into action. Middle school is a time when students become increasingly independent, develop stronger opinions, navigate friendships, and figure out where they fit within a community. They are also incredibly aware of how others perceive them. Sometimes, that awareness makes it difficult to take a social risk, offer a compliment, or put themselves out there in a meaningful way.
Our work with ThinkGive also provides a meaningful opportunity to bring Belmont Day’s six core values to life: respect, honesty, responsibility, caring, joy, and excellence. These values are not simply words displayed around campus; they are ideals we hope students recognize and practice in their everyday interactions. When a student takes responsibility for their actions, listens respectfully to another perspective, or recognizes that a classmate needs extra support, those values become tangible. ThinkGive gives students an opportunity to consider what these values look and sound like in their own lives.
We have also been talking about recognizing the good in others, showing appreciation, and, perhaps just as importantly, being our own coach rather than our own critic. Students are learning to challenge negative self-talk and extend the same kindness to themselves that they might offer a friend. Kindness isn’t just about how we treat other people; it is also about how we treat ourselves. (See this week’s Mindfulness Toolkit for more on that subject!)
As a teacher, I spend a lot of time thinking about what I hope students take away from their middle school experience. Of course, I want them to ask thoughtful questions, work through challenges, and develop the skills to think critically. But I also hope they leave seventh grade knowing how to be a good friend, recognize when someone needs support, disagree respectfully, and contribute to a community where others feel valued.
Those lessons don’t always come from a book or a carefully planned lesson. Sometimes they happen in the hallway, at lunch, during advisory, or in a passing interaction between classmates.
As we head into Thanksgiving, I hope our students carry these ideas beyond the classroom. I hope they recognize the people who support them and the opportunities they have to make someone else’s day a little brighter. Gratitude is not simply something we feel; it is something we show. And while Thanksgiving gives us a wonderful reason to pause and reflect, the opportunity to live our core values and make someone feel seen, appreciated, and valued is there every single day.
Sometimes the smallest actions leave the biggest impressions. That is a lesson worth practicing all year long.
Upcoming Events
Monthly Calendar
Looking Ahead: Early Dismissal Days
With the upcoming Thanksgiving and Winter Breaks, we will have two early dismissal days: Tuesday, November 24, and Friday, December 18. On both days, the school day will end, and all students will be dismissed at 12:30 p.m. The school will close for break on those days, and there will be no After School program or enrichment classes.
Fall Garden Workday
TOMORROW! Saturday, November 14, 10 to 11:30 a.m.
Parents, students, and faculty are invited to help put the garden to rest for the winter. Students with a parent will mulch, clear, organize, and have fun. Bring a water bottle, a pair of gloves, and a shovel if you have one (we have them too), and enjoy being outdoors and working together to maintain our outdoor classroom and community gardens. Treats included!
Please email Kathy Jo Solomon at ksolomon@belmontday.org with any questions and to RSVP.
After School & Enrichment Registration Now Open
Registration for trimester two auxiliary programs is now open until Friday, November 27. Please note that enrollment after that date, if available, will incur additional fees. There are still spaces available in our general After School program and in the Exploring Music Through Rhythm enrichment class.
The last day of the fall trimester is Monday, November 23. Trimester two will begin on Tuesday, December 1.
For program questions, please contact Blair Fross, head of co-curricular and auxiliary programs; for enrollment or waitlist questions, please contact Hannah Kleppner, assistant director of auxiliary programs.
Visit the Parent Portal to learn more about our auxiliary programs, including After School and enrichments.
Pre-Thanksgiving Break Celebrations
Pajama Day!
Monday, November 23
We will close out our penultimate day of learning before the Thanksgiving break joyfully! Students in all grades are invited to wear their coziest, comfiest, school-appropriate pajamas for Pajama Day on Monday, November 23. Slippers are fine, but please send in a pair of sneakers and essential outdoor gear (coats, hats, gloves, etc.) with students for recess.
Thanksgiving Assembly & Early Dismissal
Tuesday, November 24
Assembly from 11:30 a.m. to 12:15 p.m.
School Closes at 12:30 p.m. | No After School Program
Join us in the Barn gym as we gather before the start of Thanksgiving Break.
The assembly will include reflections and sharing the ways we show gratitude, celebrate community, and enjoy the arts and music before heading off for break.
We hope you will join us for this special event!
Early Dismissal Plan
After the assembly, parents are asked to stay seated in the Barn while students and teachers are dismissed to their classrooms. Once this happens, parents are welcome to pick up their child from the classroom, making sure they check out with the teacher and then head directly to their vehicles.
There will be parents queued up in their vehicles waiting to pick up their children, so if you are on foot, please go directly to your car and exit campus, circumventing the pick-up line. There will be no After School or enrichment classes on Tuesday and participants will be dismissed from their assigned default dismissal door. Please check with the front desk before Tuesday if you do not know which default door your child is assigned to.
Lunch & Snack Menu
November 16 to November 20
Monday
Snack: craisins; baked potato crisps
Lunch: all-beef chili; vegan Beyond Beef chili; crispy corn strips; cornbread; corn with roasted red pepper; Southwest bean and vegetables salad with chipotle vinaigrette
Tuesday
Snack: bananas; Smartfood
Lunch: cheddar bagel melts; vegan cheddar melts; gluten-free cheddar melts; hash brown patties; roasted Brussels sprouts; Cobb salad with egg, Swiss cheese, tomatoes, red onion, and house vinaigrette
Wednesday
Snack: clementines; multigrain cheese snacks
Lunch: cheese tortellini with marinara; plain pasta with marinara; gluten-free tortellini with marinara; crusty rolls; roasted zucchini and summer squash; sweet broccoli slaw
Thursday
Snack: apples; Annie’s Grahams
BDS Gives Thanks Lunch: sliced turkey; mashed potatoes; gravy; vegan wild mushroom and lentil ragout; steamed green beans; mesclun greens with crumbled blue cheese, pears, and toasted pumpkin seeds
Friday
Snack: fresh fruit; baked tortilla chips
Faculty Lunch
Please click the button below for a more detailed, up-to-date weekly menu.
BDS News
DEVELOPMENT NEWS
Thank You for a Great Giving Day!
Giving Day was a joyful way to launch the Belmont Day Fund, our annual giving program. Thanks to current families, alumni, parents of alumni, grandparents, faculty, trustees, and friends, we raised over $230,000. Our community came together, reaching over 350 gifts and unlocking $37,000 through the board of trustees’ challenge. Participation reached 85% among current families, 71% among faculty, and 91% among trustees. What is truly special is that more Belmont Day families participated in annual giving this past Tuesday than ever before.
So much of the day’s energy came from volunteers. Thank you to our grade parents for rallying their classes and to the current and past parent volunteers who welcomed families throughout the day and brought the celebration to life on campus. We’re grateful to our Advancement Committee members for their behind-the-scenes planning and to our trustees for leading by example and inspiring others to give through their challenge. We felt your care for Belmont Day in the many ways you showed up.
We were excited to begin this year’s annual giving together because the Belmont Day Fund supports our mission in ways students and faculty experience every day. Thank you for giving your time, sharing your enthusiasm, and investing in the people who make Belmont Day the special community it is. And a special congratulations to pre-k, kindergarten, grade 1, grade 2, grade 4, grade 5, and grade 8 for reaching the ambitious milestone of 85% class participation or higher. You have set the stage for excellence and joy in the Belmont Day Fund. Thank you!
– Pati Fernández, Katie Wallace, and the Institutional Advancement Team
COMMUNITY EVENT
Annual Online Book Fair Opens on Monday
The Belmont Day Parents’ Association will once again partner with Belmont Books for the annual online book fair! The online book fair will go live on Monday, November 16, and will run for one week. We hope you will support this beloved fundraiser, which supports the parents’ association’s work!
Be sure to check your email inbox on Monday for a message with links to wish lists for the Erskine Library, grade-level reading lists, great book recommendations for adults, and a code for ordering online. Here’s a sneak peek of the fun planned for the in-store shopping event at Belmont Books on Friday, November 20, from 1 to 6 p.m.
- Literary scavenger hunt
- Arts and crafts
- Refreshments
- Hourly raffle drawings open to all grades
If you have any questions, please contact Zhenzhen Zhang at zhenhazel@gmail.com
Happy shopping, and thank you for supporting the parents’ association!
PARENT EVENT
Looking Ahead at the BDS Journey & Next Schools Process
Wondering what’s ahead for your child at Belmont Day School? Join us on Thursday, December 3, from 7 to 8:15 p.m. in Coolidge Hall for a presentation detailing the pre-kindergarten-to-grade-8 arc and the high school placement process at Belmont Day. Each grade at BDS offers new, sequenced challenges and milestones that build confidence, skills, and the creative and critical thinking key to success not only in the next grade but in high school, college, and beyond. Learn how your child’s Third Grade State Fair experience is a critical step toward their Capstone in eighth grade. Learn how our fifth grade physical education classes help launch young athletes as leaders on their middle school sports teams. Assistant Head of School Divya Muralidhara, Lower School Head Betty Chu Pryor, Middle School Head Liz Gray, and Director of High School Placement Sarah Merrill will lead this presentation and question-and-answer session. This event is primarily intended for families with students in grades 3-8, though all are welcome.
THEATER NEWS
ICYMI: Third Grade Play Recording Available
Third graders kicked off the year’s theater productions last week with two joyous performances of The Secret Ingredient. The young actors entertained us with this touching retelling of the classic folktale Stone Soup. If you missed the songs, laughs, and message, or just wish to see it again, a recording is now available. Bravo, third grade!
Learning Updates
Arts Update: Seventh & Eighth Graders Make Life-Size Sculptures
When guests walk into the Coolidge Art Studio lately, the first questions have been “WHAT are those made out of?” and “HOW are those made?!” The eye-catching work everyone is talking about is from the seventh and eighth grade arts elective class, Life-Size Sculpture. Inspired by the work of American artist Mark Jenkins, students are using an unusual medium–clear packing tape–to create the large, translucent sculptures. Students began the term by investigating how a pose can convey meaning, and then decided on a pose for their self-portrait that reveals an important aspect of their identity. After testing out the process for creating a tape “cast” of their hands, students began working–literally from the ground up–on their final sculpture. Wrapping small segments of their body at a time, the sculptural challenge has turned into a 3D puzzle that requires the artists to connect pieces so they look like a realistic figure. Displayed in front of the large wall of windows in the studio, these works are nearing completion, so keep an eye out for these intriguing sculptures around campus after Thanksgiving!
– Anne Armstrong, visual arts teacher and arts co-coordinator
Athletics Update: Fall Season Set to Wrap Up With New Experiences, Great Memories
As the fall athletics season comes to a close, our student-athletes have plenty to celebrate! After weeks of practices, games, meets, and countless opportunities to learn and grow, our teams wrapped up their final interscholastic competitions this week. While the competitive schedule may be complete, the fall season is not quite over. With team meetings, our annual eighth-grade versus coaches soccer game, the inaugural Blue/Gold Showcase, and our Fall Athletics Sharing Assembly still ahead, we have an exciting final week planned to celebrate the accomplishments of our student-athletes and reflect on a terrific season.
Before turning our attention to this week’s final competitions, we have to recognize an outstanding performance by our Cross Country team at last Saturday’s Massachusetts Middle School Cross Country State Championships! Competing against some of the strongest middle school runners in the state, the Blue and Gold delivered an impressive showing, highlighted by two medalists and numerous personal records. Alana Brown earned an incredible eighth-place finish in the seventh-grade girls’ race, while Simon Bays finished 10th in the eighth-grade boys’ race. Both earned medals for placing among the top 15 runners in their respective divisions, an outstanding accomplishment on the state stage!
Beyond the medal-winning performances, the team’s overall improvement was equally impressive. Of the runners returning to the State Championships from previous years, 11 recorded personal-best times at the meet. It was a tremendous reflection of the hard work, consistency, and determination our runners have demonstrated throughout the season. A special thank you also goes to the parents and families who helped create such a wonderful atmosphere around the BDS tents, providing encouragement, food, and support for our student-athletes throughout the day. Their enthusiasm made an already memorable experience even more special. Congratulations to the entire cross country team on an outstanding showing at States!
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Tuesday brought the final competitions of the fall, with girls’ varsity soccer, cross country, and field hockey all facing Lexington Christian Academy. Each team delivered a tremendous effort, demonstrating just how much they have grown since the beginning of the season.
Girls’ varsity soccer battled Lexington Christian Academy to a hard-fought 0–0 tie in a game that showcased some of the team’s best soccer of the season. The Blue and Gold controlled much of the action, stringing together impressive passing sequences, maintaining possession, and creating numerous scoring opportunities. Although BDS couldn’t find the back of the net, the team’s improved communication, movement, and overall understanding of the game were evident throughout the afternoon. Just as impressive was the encouragement and enthusiasm the players showed for one another, consistently cheering on their teammates and maintaining a positive attitude. Coaches Emma Alexander and Tasha Friedman couldn’t have been prouder of how the team competed. While everyone would have loved to finish the season with a victory, the effort, teamwork, and growth demonstrated throughout the game made it a fitting conclusion to a terrific fall.
Cross country also concluded its interscholastic season Tuesday, hosting Lexington Christian Academy in an outstanding final meet and earning an impressive 18–69 victory. The Blue and Gold delivered one of their strongest collective performances of the season, with an incredible 16 runners recording personal-best times on the home course. Even more impressive, all five of BDS’s top finishers placed among the first seven runners in the meet! Simon Bays led the way with a first-place finish, followed by Alana Brown in second, Raphael Hsia in third, Kevin Zhou in fifth, and Ben Bradshaw in seventh. It was an exceptional display of the consistency, determination, and improvement that have defined the team’s season.
Beyond the impressive results, one of the most memorable moments came from Jeremy Pan, who delivered an incredible sprint to the finish line, nearly catching the runner ahead of him. His effort perfectly captured the spirit of this cross country team: competing hard until the very end, challenging themselves to improve, and never giving up. With so many runners achieving personal bests and the team finishing on such a high note, it was a wonderful way to conclude another outstanding season on the trails.
Field hockey also finished its season in style, earning a well-deserved 1–0 victory over Lexington Christian Academy. Josie Goldstyn provided the game’s lone goal early in the first half, giving the Blue and Gold a lead they would protect for the remainder of the afternoon. Tallulah Chipman and Clara Min were outstanding, connecting on accurate passes, maintaining possession, and consistently disrupting LCA’s attempts to move the ball forward. Leah Zhang was equally impressive on both sides of the field, intercepting passes, supporting the attack, and hustling tirelessly between offense and defense alongside Josie. The team’s four eighth graders delivered one of their strongest collective performances of the season, helping lead BDS to a memorable final victory. It was a terrific way to celebrate the progress this group has made and the commitment they have demonstrated throughout the fall.
With our final games and meets now behind us, the focus of the athletics program shifts from competition to reflection, celebration, and community. Next week, we have a full schedule of activities planned to bring our fall season to a close and celebrate everything our students have accomplished.
On Monday, teams will gather for their end-of-season meetings, providing an opportunity to reflect on the season, celebrate individual and collective accomplishments, and recognize the growth that has taken place since September. Students will also return their uniforms as we officially wrap up the competitive portion of the season.
Tuesday brings one of our favorite Belmont Day traditions, the annual Eighth Grade vs. Coaches Soccer Game! This is always an exciting and entertaining afternoon, as our eighth graders have the opportunity to take on their coaches in a little friendly competition. With bragging rights on the line, we expect plenty of excitement, laughter, and perhaps a few surprises along the way!
On Wednesday, we are especially excited to introduce our first-ever Blue/Gold Showcase! This new event will invite parents to join their children during the athletics block for an opportunity to play alongside or against them in their respective sports. Our hope is to create a fun and memorable experience that brings families into the athletics program, gives parents a firsthand look at the skills their children have developed, and celebrates the joy of participating in sports together. Whether parents are ready to show off their own athletic abilities or simply enjoy some friendly competition with their children, we look forward to a wonderful afternoon of Blue and Gold spirit!
Thursday will be dedicated to student feedback surveys, giving our athletes an opportunity to reflect on their experiences and share their perspectives on the season. As we continue to evaluate and strengthen our athletics program, student voices are an essential part of that process. We want to hear what students enjoyed, where they felt they grew, what challenges they experienced, and how we can continue improving the athletics experience for everyone. Families will also have an opportunity to provide feedback through our end-of-season parent surveys.
Finally, on Friday, we will come together as a school community for our Fall Athletics Sharing Assembly, providing a fitting conclusion to the season and another opportunity to recognize and celebrate the accomplishments of our student-athletes.
We then head into Thanksgiving break before returning to campus and beginning our winter athletics season during the first week of December. It will be an exciting transition as students prepare for new sports, new teams, and new opportunities to challenge themselves and continue growing.
As we reflect on the fall season, what stands out most is not simply the victories, goals, touchdowns, personal records, or memorable plays. It is the growth we have seen in our students. We have watched them step outside their comfort zones, learn new skills, take on leadership roles, support teammates through challenges, and discover what it means to be part of something bigger than themselves.
At Belmont Day, we believe that every student is an athlete, and this fall has provided countless examples of what that philosophy looks like in action. Whether competing at the varsity level, learning a sport for the first time, or discovering a new passion for physical activity, every student has had an opportunity to contribute, improve, and experience the joy of athletics.
Thank you to our student-athletes for their effort and enthusiasm, to our coaches for their dedication and commitment, and to our families for their continued support throughout the season. We look forward to celebrating together next week, enjoying a well-deserved Thanksgiving break, and carrying the lessons, friendships, and memories of the fall into the winter season.
Go, BDS!
–Stephen Marks, director of athletics
Third Graders Learn the Ways of the Force
Third graders are exploring the exciting world of forces and motion through hands-on science labs this fall. As they investigate Newton’s Laws of Motion, students are discovering how pushes, pulls, friction, and other forces affect different objects. Through exciting experiments that ask: How does shape affect motion? How can you predict the way an object will move? students are also seeing the scientific method in action as they ask questions, make predictions, observe results, and draw conclusions. Each student will have an opportunity to serve as a lab leader, helping their group follow procedures, share ideas, and work together collaboratively.
– Leigh Twarog, third grade teacher
Parents’ Association News
November PA Meeting
It was wonderful to see so many of you at this morning’s November PA meeting!
Thank you to our parent panelists for sharing their experiences and the many ways they’ve found connection and community through getting involved at Belmont Day. A special thank you to Eliza Hatch and CuiCui Chen for guiding such an engaging conversation.
Feeling inspired to get involved? Explore the full list of volunteer opportunities, and please reach out to the PA Executive team member with any questions. We’d love to help you find the right fit!
Parent Book Group
The next parent book group meeting will be held on Tuesday, December 8, at 7:15 p.m. at Menotomy Grill & Tavern in Arlington. This month’s book is Taipei Story by R.F. Kuang. For the full meeting schedule, please visit the Parent Portal. If you have questions or would like to join the book club email list, please contact Karla Bays.
BDS Connections Walk
Bundle up and join us for our next Connections Walk on Thursday, December 10, after drop-off at 8.15 a.m. Meet us outside Coolidge Hall. Hope to see you there!
Contacting PA Leadership
At any time and for any reason, please feel free to email us at bdspa@belmontday.org:
- President: Megan Akkina
- Vice President: VJ Patel
- Treasurer: Manish Patel
- Clerk: Prue Clifford
- Community Engagement: CuiCui Chen
Beyond BDS
PARENT EDUCATION
Parenting Presentation To Explore Tech’s Impact on Children
Raising kids in a fast-changing, tech-driven world can feel overwhelming. Concord-based Turning Life On invites parents to an engaging presentation, “Your Child’s Brain in a Screen-Saturated World,” by neuroscientist Dr. Jared Cooney Horvath, who will give parents research-backed insight into how their child’s brain grows and learns. A Harvard educator who has worked with more than 1,000 schools, he offers practical answers for families of kids in kindergarten through grade 12. Each evening is a 90-minute presentation followed by a 30-minute live Q&A, so bring your questions.
The event will be held twice:
- Monday, November 16 at 7:00 p.m. – Hardy Elementary School, Wellesley
- Tuesday, November 17 at 7:00 p.m. – Concord Middle School, Concord
Click here for more information and to RSVP.
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